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This lack of peace is symptomatic of a deeper spiritual problem, known as the “spiritual malady” in Alcoholics Anonymous, which we understand as sin from a biblical perspective. The alcoholic is seeking a solution to a spiritual problem with a created thing…a bottle.
Millions of lives have been saved not to mention the lasting benefits it has brought to families, and societies once harmed by alcoholism. The basic tenet of this, is that it takes one alcoholic to help another alcoholic achieve sobriety.
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I end, however, with some words from a doctor who seems to be suggesting that AA works because it makes us more emotionally healthy. For me she is saying how AA treats emotional illness. Since AA began, I’ve taken immense wallops in all these areas because of my failure to grow up, emotionally and spiritually”. My inventory of steps 4/5 showed me that my long lists of resentments were mainly the product of emotional immaturity and responding in an immature manner to not getting my way. I do not believe I have the same spiritual malady as other normal people such as those people who were in the Oxford Group. The psychology and neuropsychology of alcoholism, addictive behaviour and recovery.
Only once we open the spiritual channels and begin to accept a Higher Power into our lives can we hope to find a solution to our alcoholic condition. I would also like to briefly address the concept of ‘recovering’ versus ‘recovered’. You will often hear within the fellowship that we are ‘recovering alcoholics.’ When actually the Big Book tells us we ‘recover’ and what we recover from specifically is the spiritual malady as described above.
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This emotional immaturity is referenced throughout the Big Book I believe. It is interesting that a common definition of “spiritual” as it relates to AA, is a sense of connection with others. It was 80 years ago, so our knowledge base has moved on greatly from when the Big Book was written. Hence I believe we should appreciate that this definition of our condition has been updated by research into emotions especially in the last 20 years.
- Many are surprised at the Workbook questions and one’s own responses which the questions elicited from us.
- Many of these signs are similar or identical to ones we recognized in our alcohol or drug addictions.
- For example, I may have no control over what you do or say, but I certainly have the power of choice in how I respond.
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- Bill Wilson had got this idea of abnormal, or allergic reaction to alcohol, from a physician, Dr Silkworth, who had treated him at Towns Hospital.
We must be willing to make amends where we have done harm, provided that we do not bring about still more harm in so doing. In other words, we treat sex as we would any other problem.
Three Ways To Grow In Life
This is what the heart of my alcholism looks like. Nobody wants to be out of control, to be teetering on the verge of the next disaster, the next moving of home, the next calling of the police, the next swirling carousel of unmanageabiilty.
- The 12 steps are a process with which we can recover from this emotional unmanageability.
- It was like a emotion web that ensnared one in increasingly frustrating states of emotional distress and inappropriate responding.
- For most diseases that exist, there are multiple treatment options.
- The New Testament teaching regarding the Person of Christ is that Jesus is fully God and fully man in the most…
- It is important that when we embark upon this quest to alleviate our spiritual malady that we are not too harsh on ourselves.
- As an alcoholic I have found I needed to grow up mentally and emotionally and I agree with the idea of emotional dysfunctionality which I believe is caused, probably, by past trauma or attachment issues.
But it is their spiritual practices that I find deeply fascinating and are most telling here. Self-reflection , Amends and Service were all a core part of Gnostic teachings. Our recently published book, Dep-Anon, a 12 Step Recovery Program for Families and Friends of the Depressed, the author quotes Jack Canfield, who shares with us the three ways to grow in life. “You see, I’m one of these people who live sensibly and sanely, hour after hour, day after day..
Understanding What a Spiritual Malady Is
My affective disorder via various neural and cognitive – affective mechanisms leads to chronic substance use and dependency of these substances. It is the always wanting one more that makes spiritual malady my affective disorder that of addiction and not another disorder. I also think the issues are complicate because alcoholism have some many similarities to GAD, MDD, OCD, and so on.
- In early sobriety, we may experience intense feelings of anxiety and stress.
- Instead we let Him demonstrate, through us, what He can do.
- The 12-Step program is not a temporary fix or a short-term solution.
- Trauma and mental health conditions should only ever be treated by qualified professionals.
- The 12 steps were influenced by the Oxford Group who said sins cut a person off from God, and that there was such a thing as sin disease.
Feeling connected through a spiritual practice restores hope, promotes healing, and repairs broken relationships. It is not uncommon for addicted people to lie, cheat, steal, or beg so we can get high or drunk. We often lose any sense of connection to a Higher Power and our fellow man. We continue to sink deeper into our own darkness until we ultimately lose ourselves.
The Missing Piece: The Spiritual Malady
Oh, I’ve had my moments, and if I had it all to do again, I’d have more of them. https://ecosoberhouse.com/ In fact, I’d try to have nothing else but moments, one after another.
Where is step 12 in the Big Book?
“Working with Others”, Chapter 7 in the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, addresses Step 12, but covers only the second part.